The Luvologist™

Every now and then I will post stories of ‘luv’. It will be about anything that has to do with ‘luv’…of oneself, of other people, those who are dealing with adversity and overcame, personal stories, etc. The purpose of Luv Stories is to give encouragement to those who may be dealing with the same issues.

This story was written by Kween Kiwi. You can find her blogging all of the time ((HERE)).

I love you…I still hear those words sometimes. Whether it’s a night time whisper before dreams seep in…or a midday memory as the day passes. I loved when he’d say it. It felt like the most genuine thing anyone has ever said. Those words didn’t come easy. I can remember the day he said it. A few days before…he’d worked himself up to it by questioning whom “I” loved. Refusing to say it first, I played along…naming family members, friends, etc…all to deflect from what he was really asking. Did I love HIM!

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I’ve already gotten in trouble for one of these ‘Just Another Day’ post. This won’t be any different. I decided to do this the day after Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr’s birthday because I started to reflect on quite a few things that are going on in today’s society. Anyone who knows me knows I usually don’t do montages or tributes. But as a natural observer, I look at things for what they are. Sometimes MY truth does not bode well with what society thinks. But I pose a question that had been on my mind all day yesterday. If Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was alive today would he be proud at what we have become as a population?

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This post is self-explanatory.
I love Sade.
She’s always been a favorite of mine.
This song may be true for most.
And if so, this is dedicated to you.
With love.

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Soldier of Love – Sade

I’ve lost the use of my heart
But I’m still alive
Still looking for the life
The endless pool on the other side
It’s a wild wild west
I’m doing my best

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Dear Luv and Friends,

Is it true, what goes around comes around? A while ago I used to mess with this guy. I didn’t really treat him bad. But didn’t really pay him no mind. I always had a thing for him but I liked someone else a lot more.

I ran into him the other day. I am really feeling him. I mean REALLY REALLY FEELING HIM! But he has a girl and seems happy. Should I let him be or tell him how I feel??

Oh, we had sex. But he said it wasn’t cheating because he knew me first and I don’t have a man.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??? GIVE ME YOUR HONEST ADVICE! DON’T WORRY ABOUT HURTING MY FEELINGS!

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This should be a good kick off to the new year. I’ve posted this before and it needs to be revisited.

To this day I wonder why married people get more play than single people? Just so everyone knows I have never been “officially” married. But a couple of times a few years ago I was “married.” Let me tell you the story.

If you don’t know by now, I’m a finance manager at a car dealership. A few years ago I was a car salesman (yeah, brotha made a big move up in the industry). A friend of mine (a fellow car salesman) had an idea for me. He told me that a lot of people think of car salesmen as crooks and have their own agenda, never thinking of the customer. Trying to take the customer for everything they have. So there are trust issues when it comes between the car salesman and the customer. He told me the customer is more likely to trust me if I was married than if I was single. At that point I was confused, so he explained:

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A man works hard to please his woman in every way. He spoils her. He boosts her self-esteem and self-worth. He cares for her. He is willing to die for her. There’s one problem. He’s financially strapped. Is money the big motivator when choosing your mate? Is love enough when trying to maintain a relationship? Also, The Luvologist speaks with author T S Jones about her book “Everything But The Ring”.

Questions were asked all night. What is the definition of a good man? How do I know if I found my husband? The conversation raged on about Black women in general about the choices they make when choosing their mates.

The Luvologist and author T S Jones spoke at length about the failings of relationships and what we can do to improve relationships in our lives.

They discuss the characters in her book and how they deal with the same struggles we all deal with on an every day basis.

Love or Financial Security? What do you choose?

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