Dear Daddy

When surfing the net the other day I ran across this trailer. I won’t give any initial commentary because this four and a half minutes says it all.

Now, I usually don’t go on a “Black” rant because I believe LUV encompasses all but…

It would be easy to pass blame around as to who is at fault that Black fathers aren’t in the home raising their daughters.

It would be easy to pass blame on the “no good Black men” because they aren’t there for their children.
It would be easy to pass blame to the “overbearing Black woman” because either she ran him off or ((shrugging)) ULTIMATELY it was HER choice as to who impregnated her.
And how dare anyone bring up those staggering numbers of over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 grew up without their biological fathers in the home.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BLAME
BLAME
BLAME

STOP!!

The reality is if these numbers are true:

Over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 have not had a productive father figure in their lives.
Over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 have not felt a father’s love.
Over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 might be searching for love in all of the wrong places because they have not felt their father’s love.

The reality is:

Over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 REALLY need for everyone to stop blaming other people as to the reason why there wasn’t a father figure in their lives. Over 1.8 million Black women between the ages of 18-24 need for our lives to be different so when the next wave of 18-24 year old Black women come along, they are not part of another statistic.

Are you one of those to help or are you going to continue to pass the blame?

There’s my 300 words…

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Luvologist™ has given love and relationship insight for over fourteen years. Instead of using the ‘professional and coaching’ approach he uses the experiences he has witnessed and been through and uses the 'hard-knock-life' approach. He gives it straight and to the point from a man’s point-of-view. You can find Luvologist™ giving love and relationship advice at (http://luvandrelationships.com). You can also follow him on Twitter (http://twitter.com/luvologist) or connect with him on his Facebook page (http://facebook.com/IamLuvologist).

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